A Mediated Divorce is where you and your spouse sit together with a lawyer from our office and agree upon the terms of the divorce. No judges and no expensive trial. This is by far the most preferential way to resolve your divorce if your desire is to avoid the long, slow expensive battle between two divisive sides with separate attorneys. We simplify the entire process with the following three steps:
As your mediator, we do everything for you, start to finish, without ever having to go to court. If you and your spouse prefer the idea of an uncontested, mediated divorce, contact us for a free consultation and we’ll discuss how we can help you.
Every mediated divorce is different. Some couples have children, some do not. Some couples have real estate, and some do not. Some have a net worth of a few thousand dollars and some in the millions of dollars. The divorce process and, more specifically, the paperwork involved in a divorce is the same whether you are rich or poor. However, for the purposes of explaining the process of mediation, the typical mediation goes generally as follows. We typically have 3 face to face meetings and one final very short meeting with both parties to sign final documents.
Typically, we’ll conduct four meetings between you and your spouse:
Duration: 1 1/2 – 2 hours
Duration: 2-3 hours
Duration: 2-3 hours
Duration: 15 mins. – 1/2 hour
We realize that many people are so upset with one another that they find it difficult to believe that they can sit in the same room with their spouse, talk through the emotionally driving issues necessary to complete their divorce, and actually finish. You can. This is what we do. We have experience dealing with almost every personality type. Give us the chance to help you through the mediation process. We’re confident that we can help you through the emotional and financial strains often associated with a divorce so that you save time, money, and heartache.
You actually can get divorced and never see a judge, or a courtroom. We’ll help you.
You are in control of the timing of these meetings and therefore your divorce. But typically, we take somewhere between seven days to 3 weeks between each meeting. If we need or desire additional meetings to discuss certain “hot” issues, or need more time in between meetings for any reason, we will do that. We are 100% in control of our timing. After the final “signature” meeting, we will do whatever is necessary to get the paperwork filed with the court.
Keep in mind, the State of California requires a minimum waiting period of six months (“cooling off period”) before your divorce can be “final”. That 6 month waiting period begins either 1) When the Respondent is served with the “Petition”, or 2) When the Respondent files their “Response”, whichever occurs first. In our mediations, the “Petition” and the “Response” are both prepared in our first meeting, and filed shortly thereafter. So, generally speaking, our entire paperwork process is completed long before your divorce can be finalized by the State. After the judgment is filed, we will get it back with a termination (of your marriage) date printed on the judgment. After we file the judgment, you and your spouse will typically need to wait another couple months for the final divorce date.
If you and your spouse prefer the idea of an uncontested, mediated divorce, and you feel that you would like to give mediation a try before you both spend 3 times as much just on two separate retainers, or if you have any additional questions, feel free to contact us for a free consultation and we will discuss how we can help you.
No. Although it usually takes an experienced attorney to make it happen.
You may find this hard to believe, but most divorces can be settled out of court with little or no conflict, and without a single trip to the courthouse. We have an excellent track record of helping those that want a simple and uncomplicated divorce by assisting them outside of court.