Many people have the notion that getting a divorce is a very straightforward process, especially in California, where divorce rates are higher than the rest of the country. The truth is, even if you don’t have children or significant assets, a divorce can be extremely complicated. If you have decided to divorce your spouse, you should be aware of the do’s and don’ts regarding your case. This will not only help you prepare yourself for the divorce, but may also help sway the court in your favor (if the divorce is not amicable).
Respond To Divorce Papers
In California, only one party has to consent to divorce for it to get finalized. This means that if one spouse is non-consenting to the divorce, they will have no choice but to proceed with it. If your spouse serves you with divorce papers, don’t make the mistake of thinking that you have no role in the divorce because you don’t want it. Respond to the divorce papers as soon as possible. In California, you only have 30 days to file your response before the divorce will be finalized by default.
Don’t Sign Paperwork Without Understanding It
A signature is a very powerful thing, especially in the legal world. If you are asked to sign on the dotted line, make sure you fully understand what the paperwork is about. Even if you are cordial to your soon-to-be-ex spouse, do not sign something without talking to an attorney before.
Don’t Share Credit Cards And Bank Accounts With Soon-To-Be-Ex Spouse
Once divorce papers are served, don’t make the mistake of using or credit card as you were. This will unnecessarily complicate matters when it comes time to divide the assets. However, don’t try to remove the other party’s name from the joint bank accounts, real property deeds, life insurance policies, etc. without talking to an attorney. You should open your separate account and line of credit as soon as.
Keep A Journal Of Interactions Between Yourself And The Other Party
If spousal support or child support is an issue, record the dates the payments were made, how much was paid, and how often support payments are made. Also try to maintain copies of all the support payments. If child custody is an issue, make sure you record who has custody and when; whether the children are returned unclean or unfed; whether the other spouse is routinely late for drop-off or pick-up times.
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